The Story

The Diabetic Angels were founded in 1998 when young Mollie was faced with a challenging situation, one that seriously impacted all of our lives. As we learned, was an experienced that eventually all diabetics encounter...discrimination. Ultimately, this demoralizing incident became a blessing in disguise and resulted in the formation of a special group that raises funds and provides education and support for diabetics, their families, and friends, we are…The Diabetic Angels!

As Mollie and Jackie remember...

at the age of 10, we were having the time of our lives. We enjoyed school, had a great group of friends, and were becoming increasingly more involved with the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, life was great…until we found out the hard way that diabetes is painful in more ways than one. The incident to which we are referring began when we had been invited to a friend's 10th birthday party. Ecstatic, we ran home to tell mom and for the rest of the night, going to the party was all we thought about.

The next day, our friends and the two of us excitedly talked about all the fun things we were going to do at the party. As usual, we sat with our friends, together at the same table. We started eating and there was a lull in the conversation. However, the silence didn't last long because the birthday girl took advantage of our full mouths to make an announcement. The birthday girl looked across the table at us and matter-of-factly said, "Oh, by the way, I have to uninvite you to my birthday party Mollie…my mom said Diabetics are a hassle…but Jackie you can still come!" We were stunned and couldn't talk, but worse Mollie was humiliated and in tears, there was nowhere to hide, no where to run. I, Jackie, did my best to console Mollie, but no amount of comforting was going to ease the pain.

Somehow, we made it through the rest of the day. We tried smiling and did our best to put up a brave front, but it didn't last long and when we got in mom's car the two of us just started sobbing. My heart broke for my sister, I felt so helpless, and it was obvious that at this time, nothing I said or did would undo the damage. Mom looked at us and instead of driving off, pulled the car over and seeing how devastated we were, made us tell her why we were crying. As I explained I could see the pain in mom's eyes; it was the same way I felt, angry and powerless, and above all unable to protect Mollie. However, mom wasn't helpless, and immediately helped us begin to correct the injustice.

First, mom contacted the parents of this child and explained to them that she understood they had the right to invite anyone they wanted to their child's birthday party, but to tell one child, and in particular, Mollie, that she was a hassle because she was a diabetic, was way out of line. Mom went on to explain why Mollie was not a hassle, as she was a well managed diabetic, who knew exactly how to take care of herself. Furthermore, her twin sister also knew how to help Mollie and was more then capable of handling almost any situation, which she had done on more then one occasion. Our friend's mother agreed that she didn't know about diabetes, admitting that she had made a mistake and didn't mean to hurt our feelings.

A few days passed and Mom let us feel bad and try to come to terms with our emotions and then she sat us down and the four of us, Aunt Mama, the two of us and mom talked about what happened, why we thought it happened and what, if anything, we could do about it. At first, we didn't think we could do anything to make it better, but the more we talked with mom and Aunt Mama, the more we realized that maybe there was a way of preventing other young people from experiencing this kind of humiliation and pain. After having talked for hours, mom explained to us that most people weren't intentionally cruel. She told us that she believed the reason people say hurtful things such as, "Diabetics are a hassle," is a direct result of ignorance and fear based on misinformation. All of a sudden, we understood what she was saying. We realized there really was something we could do to stop the ignorance and the fear.

The sadness we had been feeling for days began to diminish, as joy and hope replaced our grief and anger. By the end of the weekend, we were feeling empowered and motivated to take on the challenge of educating everyone that crossed our path about the reality of diabetes. We believed that if we could teach our friends, our peers, and our classmates, they in turn would educate their parents, their friends, and their peers…and so began the concept of the Diabetics Angels.

Mom helped us understand that we couldn't change what happened, but that dwelling on it would only bring about more sadness and accomplish nothing. She told us we needed to take this negative situation and turn it into a positive force, and that in actuality this incident was a blessing in disguise. The truth is that the embarrassment, humiliation and sorrow we felt left a scar, but it is also true that the wound healed when we found hope in the idea of changing the world one friend at a time.

Over the next few months, we mounted an attack on ignorance. We invited our classmates to join us in knowing more about diabetes than most adults (which sounded like a lot of fun at the time!). We asked them to agree to learn the basics of diabetes, what it meant to have normal, low, or high blood sugar, as well as, the symptoms of high or low blood sugar and then how to respond in case of a diabetic emergency. Furthermore, we asked them to agree to become diabetic advocates, which included writing their congressional representatives regarding the funding of diabetes research and technology. The "Diabetic Angels" also raised funds for medical research by asking people to sponsor them, as they joined our Walk Team, "Mollie's Diabetic Angels," in the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation's (JDRF's) annual "Walk To Cure Diabetes." In the end, we had one of the most popular clubs in school and our friends became Diabetic Angels. One of the perks include all of the "Diabetic Angels" joining us when we made public appearances, which turned out to be one of our most enjoyable endeavors!

What started as an initiative with 7 girls quickly grew to become one of the coolest clubs in school. Although learning about diabetes was a serious subject, we realized the importance of making our meetings fun, and with this in mind, we put the fun back in FUNdraising!! For example, we held meetings at the local water park, on a camping trip, as well as, at our house with a sleepover and a pizza party. Our objective was met, we had fun, our friends learned about diabetes and in turn, they shared their knowledge with everyone who crossed their paths, one "Angel" even used the knowledge she had gained to save her grandfather's life…that alone made the formation of the "Diabetic Angels" worthwhile.

Since the first meeting in 1998, our lives have changed dramatically. The "Diabetic Angels" have spread to 6 continents and have had a positive impact on all who suffer with diabetes, their families, and their friends. Today, we are proud to say that our mission to cure diabetes and teach others about the importance of diabetes awareness, advocacy, education and fundraising is succeeding! And so as the Diabetic Angels move forward, we leave you with the meaningful thoughts of our heroes, people who have inspired us and hopefully will also inspire you. We couldn't agree on just one quote so I, Jackie, have selected a quote from Mother Theresa, who once said, "There is a tremendous strength that is growing in the world through the sharing together, praying together, suffering together, and working together." This is true for us and our friends, both old and new…and I, Mollie, have chosen a quote from Albert Schweitzer, whose words taught us that if we, "Do something wonderful, people may imitate it!" We have spent many years imitating the good deeds of people we love and respect and it is our dream not only to cure diabetes, but also that the "Diabetic Angels" become a rippling effect of kindness and giving that spreads around the world.

Last updated by Founders of the Diabetic Angels Feb 15.

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